Wednesday, August 19, 2009


Long before Ethan could hear he appreciated music. Long before he heard the sounds of music he learned with his eyes. He has two older siblings who are gifted musically. None of which play the drums, but this has been Ethan's passion since he was two years old. He would watch from the front row every Sunday in church as the drummer played. I always sat in the front so he could watch his sister and brother who were part of the worship team. Ethan picked up on the movements of the drummer and never looked back.
Once implanted there was no turning back. Everything was drum worthy and when his first set of sticks were placed in his hand my house became his drum set. One Sunday between services Ethan made his way up on stage and sat at the drums and started playing. Much to our amazement he knocked our socks off and those around. A man standing at the back said something like "wow, how old is that kid, he's amazing" and I proudly said thathe is my son, he is only six years old and he's only been hearing for about three years as he is deaf. Whoa!!! He then went on to say how he has a friend looking to get rid of a drum set and Ethan would be a perfect recipient. Wow, God is sure good. We were not in a position to be buying a drum set, so Ethan got this set and has not stopped playing.
Speaking of his passion for playing the drums he went hiking with his oldest brother Elliot and notice what he is carrying. Those would be his drum sticks. While Elliot was home from college the boys would be out in the garage jamming. I was not a welcome visitor. I even tried to sneak in with a video camera but you know mothers are not always welcome with these cool dudes playing.
Ethan has always been a remarkable child. I know it's braggy, but a day does not go by that I thank God for Ethan and his passions. Nothing stops him from his passions for planes, his passion for music, his passion to learn to ride a two wheeler, or swim or hike and climb trees. He has this amazing "can do" spirit that has no limits.
I want so much to encourage those who are beginning their journey with Cochlear Implants. Yes we have deaf children, yes those earlier years were hard, hard, hard, but the rewards of seeing your child live out their passions is wonderful to watch. Wonderful I tell you in a way that makes you smile and sing and blessed to have this little deaf boy who truly has taught our family so much about life.
Ethan will start second grade this years. He is grumbling over having to learn piano. I assure him that his older two siblings had to take four years of piano in addition to the instrument of choice, but he grumbles to be learning and having to sit still at a piano. I find that I don't have "deaf" issues with Ethan, just your normal brilliant child issues. Just for the record I believe all five of my children are brilliant. WINK-WINK